That's how I spent my Thanksgiving. How about you?
Yep, that's right. The flu. That blows huh? See Amy went out of town on Sunday to a conference. The kids and I were doing just fine. Until Tuesday morning when I woke up. I knew around 4 am that something was very wrong. Very very wrong. After texting Amy and other family members it was clear that I was going nowhere that day. Amy's Mom came and got the kids to take them to school. My Mom came and got me to take me to the urgent care clinic where I was, unsurprisingly for anyone, diagnosed with the flu. Back home and in to bed I went. Meanwhile Amy was back on the way home from Dallas and would pick the kids up.
Behind all of this, orchestrating it all, was my wonderful wife. Amy. After picking up the kids she headed to the grocery with them all to pick up supplies for Thanksgiving dinner since we had now been uninvited to any family event, understandably. I was banished to the bedroom and put into quarantine. Where I have remained. I only began to feel better earlier today so Thanksgiving dinner was put off until tomorrow. My sister-in-law brought over leftovers for us so we could have something.
Do I need to go on about what I am thankful for? I think my last 3 days summed up above do just that.
Amy. Could I ask for a better wife? No. And to be honest I don't know what I have done to deserve her. She has taken care of all of the kids (oh by the way Braeden is also flirting with flu-like symptoms in all of this), the house, and me. She has recorded all of my medicine and has monitored by temperature religiously, tracking it all. Brought me food and drink. Sat with me, at a far distance, to keep me company while I have been in isolation. Nope, I don't think it gets any better than this when it comes to a soulmate. I am so thankful for Amy. She is an amazing wife and mother, God has truly blessed me with her. I cannot wait to enter into this next adoption adventure with her as I have, once again, seen first hand everything she has to offer to a child of ours, be they natural or adopted.
My kids. They are amazing. Helping Amy out, mostly, when she needs it. Waving to me and blowing kisses from a distance. Just being little laughter-inducing distractions when life desperately calls for a distraction. I look at them and see the amazing people they will grow up to be and it is awesome. And then there is the next addition we are pursuing. Who knows when it will be, how long it will take, or what they will look like. None of that matters though because in the end He has it planned out and has an adventure for all all set. Now we just travel it.
Family. Taking care of the kids. Taking me to the doctor. Bringing us food. Calling and checking in, while lovingly reminding us to keep a distance :). Crazy though they may all be, we all seem to pull through for each other whenever it is needed. But that's what family is right? I hope that your family is the same. That they make you feel the way mine makes me feel. That they love and care for you as well. Even the family you couldn't be with because the flu kept you from your previous plans of traveling to visit them for Thanksgiving.
Friends. Texts and Facebook messages to wish me well. Just little things. New and old, near and far. They are there and let you know it. Hopefully you have friends that are the same, I am sure you do. Just as family can do, they make like a lot more fun and enjoyable.
So, Happy Thanksgiving. I hope that yours was filled with family, fun, laughter, and turkey. Hopefully yours was not spent confined to a bedroom while you battled the flu. But, if you were, I can only hope that you had someone half as amazing as my wife to help care for you. Hopefully tomorrow brings a return to health and normalcy here in Drosche Land. That was the end of the holiday break, at least, can be enjoyable. As usual, this holiday has been far from what we'd expected, definitely an adventure. Just not one that we would like to repeat. Ever.
All is well, feeling better and thankful, in Drosche Land.